By Jerin Jacob (Author of Your Epic Year)
Let me start of by congratulating you for stopping here and
reading something good about life. When I
appreciated you, you may have felt better, right ah? Yes, this time, I am
writing about the very thing “Appreciation”.
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| Have you heard about unconditional appreciation? |
Appreciation is the one thing everyone of us strive for. You
may say, I don't like to be appreciated or I don't appreciate anyone even if
they do wonderful deeds. Let me tell you that being appreciated is a natural
human need. At-least non-consciously you love the idea of being appreciated.
Most psychologist may agree with this!
(Those psychologists who have not only got certified but have a good and proven
capabilities to analyse minds by the way)
Hence this is the case about you, then what about the people in your organization or in your family. Everyone love to hear some good
words about themselves.
Millions of people go to their bed starving, because of
their poverty. About the same number of people go to their bed weeping without
being appreciated.
You may know the basic rule of the universe -
“What you GIVE that you RECEIVE back abundantly”.
So you might have got the point by now. Give negativity and receive back negativity abundantly. Give appreciation and receive appreciations abundantly. Yes, start appreciating and celebrate the little wins of the people around you. In
between this appreciation-game, you should take care of some critical things
to effectively appreciate and to get appreciated. Here it is!
#2 things you should care when you GIVE appreciation:
- Never appreciate only because Jerin Jacob has written this, that means, don't appreciate for the sake of appreciating. But do it for a genuine reason.
- When you do that, go very close to the person you would like to appreciate, then look at his/her eyes with an encouraging smile, then congratulate the person. This is the best way to do that; if you have a better version then do let me know.
#1 thing you should care when you RECEIVE appreciation:
- When you receive appreciation, most of you may show the greatest acts of humbleness and may say “It's nothing man”. (For sure, if you have done the above act of being humble then he/she will never appreciate you again). Some-others haunt the person who stepped forward for this wonderful act of appreciation. (In that case, you are literally warning the other person never to appreciate you). Say “Thank you” to the one who appreciated you, simple as that.
And most importantly when you appreciate someone, do it unconditionally. That means do appreciate
people for their good deeds and never expect anything back, not even a smile. You 'll receive great things now or later, not necessarily from the one you have appreciated but from the divine power.
My dear awesome reader, I am thankful for your patience to
read this. Hope it has benefited you in some-way or the other. Do share your
feedback and comment in below. I will definitely appreciate that!
Happy appreciating...
Happy appreciating...
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