I know, many of you have
experienced many downfalls in your relationships. You might have hurt yourself - in the relationship with your family, in the relationship with your work colleague, in the relationship with your lover, in the relationship with your
closest friend - at-least once in your life so far. For some of you the
relationship hurts hundreds of times :)
When you feel bad about or
irritated about a relationship, you start blaming the other person. Or you
start nagging and try to change the other person.
But as per the law of love, any
problem arises in your relationship is not because of the other person, it’s
because of YOU. I know, probably you start saying, “You don’t know Jerin, what
happened that day?” “You don’t understand Jerin, how much I love her, but
she…”. These are the common responses.
Okay, let me suggest you this:
Just change the roles to each other. Just like changing the dress; let’s swap
the brain of you with the other person in the relationship. Now that you have become the other person.
Start visualizing the
situation which you felt hurt last time. This time, in your imagination you
have to pretend and deliver dialogues of the other person. Other person has
to respond to it as you did that day. You must try to clarify your side always
(remember you are the other person). Please really try it, it will take a few
seconds... Try it! :)
...
thinking, ah?
...
...
Now that if you have done that,
you might have got a better prespective. You must have realized that YOU are
the solution of every relationship challenges.
If a hurting situation happens,
just ignore it. Never give any feeling to it. Start thinking and nurture the
good positive qualities of the other person. What do you give that you receive
back. Give love and you receive love abundantly that’s the natural law.
Remember “When you start changing
the way you look at things, the things you look at will change”. Think!
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