Friday, October 15, 2010

Not so positive feed back?


Since many of us working in technology based industry and many of us are developing products and services, we must have been receiving different feedback from our clients or from other authorities on a consistent basis.

Many of us really struggle to handle those negative feedback or might have even felt disappointed and frustrated with it. We have been taught from childhood that life is meant for facing problems and overcoming challenges and because of that we swim against the flow of life. We may think we are in the right direction towards our personal and professional goals.

But in reality, life can be be absolutely phenomenal, It should be and it will be. We are meant to have an amazing life. There is no more space for 'bad feelings'. Yes, I know many of us reading this would disagree with the above cited sentences in this para. You might have heard from some freelance advisers – 'No Pain No Gain'. In fact, even this proverb may not be right. Let me prove it to you.

Main cause of our worries is the 'not so positive' thought on future. We may think, what if I don't make it, what if I don't fix it, what he would think if I do that. We need to clear all these thoughts of negativity. Then think about NOW - exactly this moment, this second of time. The negative feedback or any problem we are facing, will not affect us right NOW. When we could really concentrate on NOW - every pain, stress and every negativity will dissolve. When we realize nothing can disturb us NOW, our life would be more joyful. Of course, being in NOW doesn't mean to be irresponsible and never thinking about future goals. Rather we need to take every negative feedback as an opportunity to shine and act NOW. When we do so, we could also improve the quality of the services or products we are involved in. And for sure we would eventually achieve all our professional and personal goals. 


Always passionate in helping you.
Thank you, Jerin Jacob.

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